Dear teen girls,

roachpatrol:

littleblackbabyprincess:
fvlani:
dynastylnoire:
exposing-the-bullshit:
Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.
Stop:
Yelling at him in front of his friends
Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like
Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you
Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him
Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend
Forcing him to spend every moment with you
Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws
Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake
Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want
Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want
Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you
Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes
Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love
Physically attacking him when ever you are mad
Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to
Invading his privacy by going through his phone
Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is
If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy.
Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.
Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive.
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My brother was abused by his babies mom and it started like this and escalated to child abuse and neglect.
You don’t deserve to be screamed at, ignored, or assaulted.
Not showing affection when she wants or not hugging her before class) or missing a phone call doesn’t warrant getting cussed out or hit.
Lol, I lost 5 followers from reblogging this. That’s fine, y'all can go
when my friends do that to their boyfriends they arent my friends any more that’s disgusting
boys and men: you NEVER deserve to be hit, slapped, screamed at, mocked, humiliated, isolated from your friends or family, fear for the safety of your personal possessions, deprived of privacy or personal time, or forced to have unwanted or unsafe sex. never, ever, ever.
some women are taught that they are harmless and powerless, and should strike back against men with everything they’ve got just to survive. some women are also just assholes who like hurting people. please know you deserve a safe and equal relationship, and don’t settle for less.
girls: say something when you see partner abuse, whether your friend is the victim or the perpetrator.